Finding Grace

I'm really liking the straight forward teaching in the book Sacred Marriage. 

"I always thank God for you because of His grace given you in Christ Jesus"

"We can be thankful for our fellow sinners {friends, family, spouse} when we spend more time looking for evidences of God's Grace than we do in finding fault"  

 If my spouse is more aware of where they fall short in my eyes 

Instead of how I am witnessing evidences of God's grace in their journey in this life

then I am a legalistic spouse, 

akin to a Pharisee

{Sacred Marriage}